families can be forever

This week we have still been striving to find new solid investigators. It hasn't neccissarily been a smooth couple of weeks, yet we have been blessed as we have pressed forward with faith. We have had several opportunities arise for service (one for a member refferal that we have struggled to catch at home) and were able to help the Cutrer family share the gospel through the BRP.

We found a new family, the Bicerras! Bro. Bicerra told us that from the first time he saw us, he knew that we were doing God's work. We have worked in the neighborhood over the past few months and have seen them every once in a while. They are so busy. Bro. Bicerra works during the day and then both Bro. and Sis. Bicerra drive ice cream trucks in the evening. We had an opportunity a couple months ago to do a small act of service for Sis. Bicerra (it was raining and we closed her gate as she pulled out in her car). Two weeks ago, it was 9:00p and we were walking back to our car. As we passed their house, Bro. Bicerra and his sons were playing basketball. We stopped and chatted for a minute, then headed to our car so we could be in on time.

Last week, we finally knocked on their side of the street and their oldest son answered. He was warm and inviting. They were busy at the moment, but Bro. Bicerra asked that we come back. The second time we came, they told us the same thing, but set a time for us to come the next day. When we arrived, they said they had about 20 minutes to sit down and talk. We of course took their offer. They have very firm faith in Christ and we could feel the spirit in their home. We talked for several minutes about our work as missionaries and about our beliefs. We testified of the importance of families, which they loved. After about 15 minutes, Bro. Bicerra asked what was the real difference between us and other religions. We testified that the gospel of Christ has been restored in it's fullness and purity again to the earth. The spirit testified of these words to their hearts and Sis. Bicerra said "wow". Though the time they had alloted was over, they asked that we go ahead and share our message. The spirit was strong as we taught and they accepted gratefully the opportunity to read and pray about the Book of Mormon. We can't wait to teach this family again tonight and help them progress towards baptism! People are prepared little by little to receive our message. I don't they would have been so warm to us if they hadn't seen us out and about as they had.

Tomorrow, we have an amazing mission fireside planned for investigators, recent converts, and less active members. I'm so excited. Kayla will be coming and we've been inviting people left and right. The spirit's going to be so strong, I'm excited and pray that a couple of people we have invited will come. This is an experience that I think will really help them progress.

All of the things going on back home, the family we found, and the mission's emphasis on finding families has caused me to reflect on the importance of family. I'm so grateful the blessing of having mine forever! I want others to enjoy that same joy!

I love you all!!

Love,

Sis. Cottam

lessons for improvemen​t+searchin​g for the elect+fait​h=success

Dear family....I'M SO EXCITED TO BE AN AUNT!!

whew, now that that's out of my system... ;)

I'm even more excited to be a missionary!

Elder Walker of the 70 (he's also on the general temple committee thingamajig or som'in'lik'at) came to our mission this past week to tour it. We had two combined zone conferences with him. Our half of the mission met this past Friday. It was 6 hours of jam-packed spiritual feasting. I learned so many things that I want to apply to my own life. Pres. and Sis. Holm spoke with Sis. and Elder Walker. Most of what Elder Walker spoke on was improving ourselves as servants of the Lord. I loved how he often jumped from one subject to another saying, "I feel inspired to share this..." I think I ended up with 10+ pages of notes. Here are a couple of my favorite gems:

"There is no more important work than the cause that you and I are involved in today." Pres. Holm

Sis. Walker shared the story "The Kings Highway". Moral of the story: How do we handle the trials on our Heavenly Father's highway? Do we complain or do we make the trip better for someone else? It's all about our attitude. How well do we travel the highway we've been given?

"There are more of God's angels around us than angels of Satan. But when we're casual, we listen more to Satan's angels. We are in a war against Satan. We can't afford to be casual. We must always been on guard in a happy, joyous, amazing way." Sis. Holm

"A missionary's main job is to help investigators feel the spirit." Elder Walker

"We are not here to teach people the gospel, but to help them want to live the gospel; not to keep the commandments, but to want to keep the commandments...I get to...I get to...I get to..." Pres. Holm

"The Lord calls who He needs at a specific time, and He doesn't expect you to be someone else. He expects you to do your best." Elder Walker

"If you are almost obedient, you almost get blessings." Elder Walker

"Bringing someone back to church is as valuable or more valuable than baptisms." Elder Walker

"There's no limit to what you can accomplish if you don't care who gets the credit."

"As missionaries, long term is two weeks, but not in the Lord's time. sometimes it takes experiences after experience, until finally one will tip the scale. Each one counts."

I walked away from this conference wanting to be better, wanting to change my outlook, and wanting to share the gospel with everyone I meet. As the temperatures have increased, I've found myself wishing I could be doing something other than knocking...complaining. I've found that I slack sometimes in caring about the person. This was such a good recharge. I love being a missionary, even when we are struggling to find investigators. I love being a missionary, even when it's 90 degrees and humid. I love being a missionary, even when door after door is closed behind us. I love being a missionary, because even the worst is wonderful.

Have a amazing week all yall. We've just had some amazing miracles, and there are more waiting just around the corner!

Love ya!

Sister Cottam

...splash.​..tears...​joy...

Firstly, Happy Father's Day to my favorite dad in the entire world! <3...

We've experienced a wide range of emotions this past week. For a couple of days we weren't sure if Kayla was still going to get baptized. She was staying with a friend so we couldn't see her. We could only text with her, and Satan was working hard against her, giving her doubt. I don't know if I've ever prayed so hard in my entire life. Our entire zone was praying for her, and our prayers were answered. Her baptism was Thursday. We found out Wednesday morning that she still wanted to be baptized. I think I now have a better understanding of how the sons of Mosiah felt "Now they were desirous that salvation should be declared to every creature, for they could not bear that any human soul should perish; yea, even the very thoughts that any soul should endure endless torment did cause them to quake and tremble." (Mosiah 28:3)

Sis. Brand was able to come up from Georgia to see the baptism. We loved having them there. To our utter surprise, Pres. and Sis. Holm were also there! They had a meeting with the nearby stake and were taking Sis. Brand and Sis. Johnson half of the way back to Georgia, so they joined the baptism! It was an amazing evening.

Chelsea's baptism was Saturday. Though she was nervous (and had to do it twice), she knew it was right. After her interview last week, I asked her about where she was in the Book of Mormon. She was behind schedule to finish it before her baptism (as was her original goal) because of all her school work. But she told me it didn't matter as much to her anymore; she still wanted to get baptized.

Oh, what joy comes from bringing save one soul unto Christ, and what greater joy of bringing many.

I'm excited to see how these sisters will grow and how they will bless the lives of many others. Their confirmation blessings were so perfect. Though it was the same ordinance, the blessings differed greatly, and fit perfectly to each one of them, to their needs and experiences. I was reminded again, that this is definitely the Lord's work. This is His gospel. This is His church.

We get to do more finding this next week. There are others whose hearts are being prepared to receive the fulness of the gospel. We just have to find them.

Love yall! Go out there and be the best member missionaries you can be! Without member involvement with both Kayla and Chelsea, I don't know if they would have made it. (I attached pictures of their main fellowshipping families. Kayla is the one with dark brown hair in the dress. Chelsea has the blonde/brown hair.)

Love,

Sister Cottam

Kayla

Kayla

Chelsea

Chelsea

strength in prayer

Hey yall!

We've stayed very busy this week with transfers and preparing two
investigators for baptism. Kayla slipped with the Word of Wisdom, and
we had to move her baptism back to this week. Though she has struggled
she is excited to move forward and be baptized. Sis. Brand was
transfered to Martinez, GA, but she received permission to come back
for Kayla's baptism.

I never realized that I could be so worried for another indivdual
until now. I love Kayla so much and just want her to have the best and
be able to overcome every temptation to be baptized and experience
that joy! My heart is constantly pouring out in prayer for her
welfare. Her soul depends on this. The future of her family depends on
this. Satan knows it, and he is working overtime on her. If nothing
else, I know that this is truly the Lord's work because Satan works so
hard to keep people from it!

I learned an important lesson this week through experience: the Lord
gives us the strength that we need to fulfill any assignment He gives
us. I know I'm not a perfect missionary, but I have marveled at how
the Lord has made up for my weaknesses as I have strived to be exactly
obedient, diligent in the work, and supportive to my new trainee Sis.
Koeven :) Going through the process of preparing to meet the trainees,
doing a little training with them in Columbia, and then working with
Sis. Koeven this past week has made me reflect often on my experiences
when I first came out. I was so grateful for the experiences I had and
I pray that I will be a tool in the Lord's hands in helping Sis.
Koeven also have an amazing start in her service. I'm excited to work
with her for the next 12 weeks!

Have a wonderful week all yall! Press forward with faith!

Love always,
Sister Cottam

sound of running water....f​illing a font

Transfers are this week. I'm staying, but my wonderful companion Sis. Brand is leaving. I'm sad that she will be transfered. In the coming weeks she would have witnessed the fruits of long labors, but deep down I feel it is the Lord's will. I know she will continue to serve well in her new area. There are many others who need her.

We have seen soooooooo many blessings this week and I can't wait to share them!

Two of our investigators are solid for baptism! Kayla is living the word of wisdom, has been taught everything and will be baptized this Saturday! Her testimony is so strong, and not because of us. Over the past couple of weeks she has become truly converted through the spirit. We had a meal with her and a member family this past Tuesday. The fellowship she enjoyed there and the things the members taught her gave her an extra boost that she needed. They were baptized when they were about her age and testified of the peace and the many blessings that came from the gospel and being a part of Christ's church. They testified that the biggest blessing was peace that came from knowing they were sealed together and that no matter what happened, their family would be all right. It was during that lesson that the spirit directed us to commit Kayla to be baptized on the 9th...and through happy tears she said yes. She is so ready to live the gospel for the rest of her life, to be an example for her three young children. She has a fire now that she did not have before. I can see the change. It came slowly as she took small steps to read and pray and come to church and has just snowballed. She has no desire to be a part of her past life and even now as she has to deal with so many struggles at home, so many bad situations, she is a rock because she loves the Lord. Her greatest desire now is to help her family also find God. She is so amazing, she even bore her testimony in fast and testimony meeting yesterday! We love her so much! She is so ready and will be a great warrior in the Lord's kingdom!

Chelsea is going strong as well. We taught her everything and now she just needs her interview. She has a goal to read the Book of Mormon before her baptism...she still has a lot to read, but I know either way, she will be ready. She is excited to make this step.

Now we get to do some awesome finding this week as we continue to prepare these two precious daughters to step into the waters of baptism.

I was studying Moroni 7 today about faith, hope, and charity. These mean nothing unless we are meek and lowly in heart (i.e. willing to submit to the Father's will). As we pray for charity, as we cleave to faith, as we are willing to submit to the will of the Lord, anything is possible, and he will use us a worthy tools in His hands, not by our own strength or desires, but by His.

I know this is the Lord's work. It is so much bigger than even I can comprehend. Miracles still happen today when we endure, when we have the faith. I wouldn't take back any of the struggles we've had over the last several months. I wouldn't take back any of our experiences. And my heart is full of gratitude for the things I have witnessed, for the things that I get to be a part of. I know I have no claim to any credit. It was the Lord, in His infinite mercy and love for me and for His children here in South Carolina.

Have an amazing week all y'all!

Love,

Sister Cottam

P.S. I'm training  :)

the heat is on

We got a good taste of summer weather this week. It was hot and muggy and we came home sticky and sweaty...I love humidity ;) I know I'll miss it when I leave. We had almost half of our investigators drop us this week. A couple of them were pretty solid too, but the work moves forward. There are others waiting to receive the fulness of the gospel. When we find them, it is so amazing! Our investigator Chelsea is going strong. Her testimony is growing everyday and she is becoming more and more committed to the gospel. She has been reading the Book of Mormon religiously. She has a goal to finish it before her baptism on June 16th. She has it downloaded on her phone and reads at every spare moment. Sis. Brand and I both have no doubt that she will be baptized. It will be the first time sisters have had a baptism in this area and we're so excited!

This past week we had another awesome meeting: zone conference. The main themes were about using the Book of Mormon more and about being a 4th missionary (as Hna. Cottam has discussed before). Our new favorite contact method is bringing up something we've read in a great book relating to our lives, asking "Do you like to read?", and then explaining the Book of Mormon and inviting them to learn more about it. I've reflected often over our trainings and have striven to apply the principles that were taught. Perhaps the training that has affected me the most this week was one given by our mission president's wife all about our attitude. The more we say to ourselves something, the more we believe ourselves. "Positive affirmations" can give a brighter outlook and actually help us become what we want to become. I've gotten into the habit of saying to myself, "I love being a missionary." and other such phrases, and I've already seen my attitude change. I'm loving the work more. I have greater desire to be more diligent and dedicated to the work and I am happier everyday. The power of the subconscious is powerful. The spirit is powerful.

Love yall lots!

This will be a great week!

Love,
Sister Cottam

mission-wide conference: faith

We have several amazing investigators right now. We had 4 investigators at church!!!!! that's a record! One is Kayla. We met her several weeks ago, but she had some health issues and hadn't been able to make it to church yet. Even though most of her family is anti, she has a strong desire to change her life and live for the Lord so she can raise her children up right. She is so strong! Two of them are friends of members and have already been coming to church for a long while, Hailey and Chelsea. We were finally able to set up appointments with them and teach them. They are both on date! The spirit they have already felt at church has prepared them to take the steps to make covenants with God. Hailey is 11. A couple of young girls in her neighborhood are members and invited her to come with them several months ago. Chelsea works with a soon-to-be-missionary. She's been coming for almost 3 months. We had dinner at the member's home two weeks ago and taught her the plan of salvation (the family had started to discuss it with her the week before). We gave her a Book of Mormon and invited her to read it. She is already done with 2nd Nephi! I can tell that she has felt the power of this book and sincerely wants it be true and to know that this is Christ's church. She is nervous about baptism, but I can see how the Lord has prepared her!

We had a mission-wide conference this past weekend with Elder Gonzalas and Elder Giddons of the 70's. What was taught there was exactly what we needed. They emphasized faith to act and using the Book of Mormon in every teaching and finding opportunity. Our mission is one of the highest finding missions, but on average, we are having to find twice as many investigators to get our baptisms than other missions are. The key to fixing that ratio: more powerful teaching. The keys to more powerful teaching: faith, the Holy Ghost, and the Book of Mormon.

I was reminded that everything in this work stems on the faith to act, in the missionaries and especially in our investigators. If we never speak up they will never know what God has to offer. If they don't act, they will never receive a witness. The Book of Mormon was saved specifically for OUR day, when we would face challenges no other generation has. It is the evidence we have that Christ has restored His church again to the earth. The church relies on this witness. I felt the power of the Book of Mormon in my own life and am grateful for the guidance to use it in every finding and teaching situation. I didn't fully understand before how key it is to conversion.

I am so grateful for the difficult times I have had in life that refine my heart and make it more ready to accept the Lord's will over my own. There is still more to do, more to learn, more to overcome, and more people to find and teach and baptize. I know these will come with time as I serve the Lord with all my heart, trust in Him, and do all I can to have and follow His Spirit. Without the spirit, ye shall not teach... If you never have the faith of the brother of Jared to ask, you will never see the finger of the Lord...

Have a wonderful week yall!

Love,

Sister Cottam